Relationships and the Holidays
Friday, January 8th, 2010
Rachael Jayne Groover
The YIN Project
www.TheYinProject.com
Holidays can be one of the hardest times of the year if you are single. I know that first-hand. If you find yourself this year without a partner I urge you not to retreat on your own, but to look around you. How many couples do you see having a committed, sexy, fun, spiritually-enhancing relationship? Not many? If you know some, carve out time to be around them this season. Like just about anything else, the more knowledge and positive role models you have around you, the more chance of success you have. Take a moment, right now, and write their names down so you remember to connect with them. Ask them questions about their relationship. The more you see positive, passionate, conscious couples, the more you will believe that you can be part of one too.
In the past, Datta and I both had our fair share of lonely holidays, confusion and heart-break. We had to overcome limiting beliefs that said, “The odds of finding a partner who fits with us in all areas of life are very low.” We are grateful to now be able to pin-point the specific things that shifted everything for us. Within months of these shifts occurring, we started dating each other. Our passion and love has been growing ever since.
If you long for an extraordinary love affair that will sweep you off your feet, we are here as an example that it is ABSOLUTELY POSSIBLE. However, you must take an honest look at your readiness and what you are energetically communicating to others. Above all, you must understand what not only attracts, but feeds the opposite gender over the long haul. Couples who are in love and still have the passion flowing can help you with this.
This year we set time aside to share all we know about becoming ready for this type of relationship.
Rachael Jayne Groover is running a Home Study Program on www.MoreThanDating.com
Comments:
When I first read Rachel’s article I had to smiles. Paul and I have been together close to twenty years. A passionate holiday season – well there was the year we stayed up to put together something – a bike or something that the box said, even a kindergartener can do it – it did heat up when it was apparent that we would have to find a kindergartener to put it together.
I do agree – find a loving couple or family to enjoy the holidays with and emulate. The love comes from preparing for the holidays together and instilling traditions. Whether it’s the cooking and baking or the cleaning or decorating or singing – they all come together to create the memories filled with love.
If you are feeling lonely and unloved, then get up and do something about it. You won’t meet your partner hiding inside your house or hanging out online. You can connect online with someone, but they too are lonely and unhappy and they too are probably too afraid to leave their house.
This Christmas, if you are feeling lonely, find out where all the Community Christmas events are being hosted and go volunteer. Talk to people. Laugh with them. Sing with them. It will help you feel apart of the holiday.
When you are feeling more relaxed, more joyous you will attract people into your life. The more people you invite into your life the greater the chance you will me the romance of your life.
Have a joyous holiday and a wondrous New Year.
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